⏳ For Guardians to Be Cautious of Dayyuths
A Dayyuth is the head of a family who does not have jealousy for his family, allowing his wife and children to commit sins and remain in wrongdoing, while he shows no concern or attention towards them, neither commanding good nor forbidding evil.
🖋️ Shaykh al-Islam Ibn Taymiyyah, may Allah have mercy on him, said:
"Dayyuth is the one who does not have ghirah (protective jealousy) for his family; if he sees wrongdoing in his family, he does not denounce it."
📚 Al-Mustadrak 1/211
The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, issued a severe warning to the husband or guardian who allows his wife and children to commit sins, as mentioned in the hadith:
“Three will not enter Paradise: the one who is disobedient to his parents, the Dayyuth, and the woman who imitates men.” (Reported by Al-Bayhaqi in Al-Kubra 10/226, Ibn Khuzaymah in At-Tawhid 861/2, authenticated by Al-Albani in Sahih Al-Jami', 3063).
Therefore, it is obligatory for guardians to keep their families away from Allah's punishment, which will befall those they are responsible for in terms of care and education.
🖋️ Shaykh al-Islam Ibn Taymiyyah, may Allah have mercy on him, stated:
"Allah has made it obligatory for a man to have ghirah (protective jealousy) over his family and to protect them from immorality. If he remains silent and does not change that, he is a Dayyuth, about whom the hadith says: 'The Dayyuth will not enter Paradise.' The opposite of the Dayyuth is the one who has protective jealousy for his family."
📚 Jami' al-Masail 477/7
🖋️ Our Shaykh Al-Allamah Yahya Al-Hajury, may Allah protect him, said:
“It is the right of a woman upon her guardian to protect her from Allah’s punishment by keeping her away from what Allah has forbidden.”
📚 Hasydul adillah 'ala anna ikhtilat an_nisa bir_rijal minal fitan, page 2
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⏳ 监护人须谨防Dayyuths
Dayyuth是指一个家庭的负责人，他对家庭没有嫉妒心，允许妻子和孩子犯罪并处于错误之中，而他对他们毫不关心，也不关注，不命令行善，也不禁止作恶。
🖋️ 伊斯兰学者伊本·泰米叶（愿安拉怜悯他）说：
“Dayyuth是对家庭没有保护性嫉妒的人；如果他看到家庭中的错误行为，他也不予以谴责。”
📚 《Al-Mustadrak》1/211
安拉的使者（愿他平安）对允许妻子和孩子犯罪的丈夫或监护人发出了严厉的警告，如圣训所述：
“三种人不得入天堂：忤逆父母者，Dayyuth，以及模仿男人的女人。”（《阿尔·拜哈奇》在《Al-Kubra》10/226中报告，伊本·库扎伊马在《At-Tawhid》861/2中报告，阿尔巴尼在《Sahih Al-Jami'》3063中认证）
因此，监护人有责任使其家庭远离安拉的惩罚，这惩罚将降临在他们所负责的照顾和教育的人身上。
🖋️ 伊斯兰学者伊本·泰米叶（愿安拉怜悯他）指出：
“安拉已经规定，一个男人必须对家庭有保护性嫉妒，并努力保护他们免受不道德行为的侵害。如果他对消除邪恶保持沉默（不加以改变或阻止），他就被视为Dayyuth。Dayyuth在圣训中提到：‘Dayyuth不得入天堂。’Dayyuth的反义词是对家庭有保护性嫉妒的人。”
📚 《Jami' al-Masail》477/7
🖋️ 我们的谢赫阿尔-阿拉玛·亚哈亚·阿尔-哈朱里（愿安拉保护他）说：
“妇女对监护人有权利保护她免受安拉惩罚，将她从安拉禁止的行为中远离。”
📚 《Hasydul adillah 'ala anna ikhtilat an_nisa bir_rijal minal fitan》第2页
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1444年杜尔·凯达月12日 - 2023年6月1日
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